What started out as a great day, suddenly turned horrible but some how ended decent.
I went to VGF’s hubby’s sandwich shop. Found great parking. Walked up and instantly PLH saw me. He did a double take and I ignored him, didn’t acknowledge him. Pretended he didn’t even exist. I searched out VGF’s hubby and when hubby saw me, he immediately came out from behind the counter to say hello and welcomed me to his shop! It was fabulous. I’m so thrilled and excited for him. It’s a great feeling when you see someone’s hard work pay off!
I ordered my food and waited. PLH was not going to spit on my food. Everyone was watching, the kitchen/setup is in full view of everyone. While waiting, I started talking with this older gentleman. He commented on my purse, I used my potato chip purse. It’s always a great conversational starter because everyone thinks it’s a bag of actual potato chips…
This older gentleman, we’ll call him OG, invited me to join him and a bunch of friends on the beach to play volleyball. I was already heading to the beach to watch friends play volleyball. OG piqued my interest when he said there would be 30-40 year old doctor/lawyers playing with him… I told him I would stop by after my other session of vball ended. He handed me his card and I took off.
I headed to my appointed vball group. It took me nearly an hour to finally find parking. I was so fed up that I nearly left! BUT just as I was about to leave, I found a spot.
Now this is when the horribleness happens…
I was walking through the pedestrian walk way to the beach when some short Hispanic guy calls out to me. At first I didn’t turn around, but he called out to me again and I turned to look. He was a short guy, looked clean up, put together. He wore a white t-shirt, light pants and a cap on his head. He asked me for some street names and where a certain restaurant/bar. I told him and continued walking.
I sensed he was still walking behind me but figured when we crossed the street he was asking about, he would stop following me but he didn’t. He kept following me as I continued my walk down the alleyway. I felt something was off. He shouldn’t have kept following me, I fastened my pace and so did he…
Then all of a sudden, HE GRABBED MY ASS! Like full on no holds bar, latched onto my butt, felt me up and then took off running. I screamed instantly turned and started yelling. BUT of course no one was around to stop him. I started walking again, I reached the main car alley way and was shaking. I couldn’t believe what just happened.
The second I reached the main alley way, I saw a cop car and flagged it down. I told the officer what happened and he told me to wait right there and he sped off to try and find the perv.
I waited, still shaking, replaying what just happened. I tried to remember every detail of the guy. The more detailed description, the better a chance he’d get caught because there is no way I was going to let this incident go.
WTF! What gives a guy the right to sexual assault someone.
The cop car came back, he told me to get into the back seat and we sped off searching for the perv. Now this was the first time I had ever been in a cop car. It is not comfortable. And I hope I never have to actually be forced into one…
We drove around for about 10-15 minutes searching. The officer kept asking me questions about the assault. I watch a lot of Criminal Minds, so I tried my best to give as many details as possible. Unfortunately we never spotted him again. The officer who was actually a deputy who was passing through on his way to grab some coffee said he had to call the LAPD so I could file a report, if I wanted to file one.
HELL YES I was filing a report. I was sexually assaulted. I never thought I would be attacked in broad day light walking to the beach. I’m always so cautious at night, I never walk down alleyways by myself. Always valet park every time I’m alone. I have a taser! But never in my wildest imaginations did I think I was be assaulted the way I was. It may not seem like much, so he grabbed my butt, it was the way and manner and how dare he touch me without my permission! He had no right to grab me that way. What else would he have done if given the chance? I don’t even want to entertain the notion of what else…
The cops actually told me I should carry around mace, have it always ready, all the time. It’s horrible to think I will never feel truly safe again.
After filing the report, I took a deep breath and headed to the volleyball courts. I wasn’t going to let this incident stop my day. It felt weird to just continue with my day but I wasn’t going to go home and curl up on my couch. It was too beautiful of a day!
I saw my friends and immediately launched into what happened. It was horrible! Who does shit like that! I really tried to make the most. I mingled as best as I could. I didn’t want to keep talking about what happened. There were tons of people around. Having a good time
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. Playing volleyball! I really tried. I smiled and made small talk here and there. Stayed as long as I could lay out. But I wasn’t in the mood. I kept searching for the perv. Looking at everyone. Still in shock at what had happened.
I eventually left, wanting to go home but I had told OG that I would stop by his vball court and I try to always be a woman of my word. I drove down roughly to where he said he was set up. I told myself that if I found a parking spot, I would go but if after one drive by and couldn’t find a spot, I would leave…
I found a spot and headed back to the beach. I found OG with 2 friends lounging by the courts. I missed the games and the 30-40year old doctors/lawyers. OG was thrilled to see me and actually couldn’t believe I was there. I’m a woman of my word…
The rest of the evening actually turned out to be relaxing. I briefly told them of the assault. But we didn’t dwell upon it. It’s not something I want to keep reliving.
The sun was setting and the wind was making it cold. We left the beach and OG convinced me to come grab a bite to eat with him. Now after what had transpired to me earlier, you would think I would be even more cautious to go to dinner with a random man but my gut told me everything was fine with OG. I knew something was wrong with the perv as we walked down the alleyway. That’s when I really needed my taser!
OG took me to a nice restaurant and we had a great conversation. I could tell he would be interested in me if I gave him the right inclination but he is much older than I would like my man to be and definitely no attraction on my part. But he was nice and helped me take my mind off of the assault.
We finished dinner and he walked me to my car. We hugged and I drove off with the promise of coming back to the beach to play volleyball on another Sunday…
So now I am home. Curled up on my couch….
This is one Adventure, I never wanted to go on…